hello. the seats on my 2013 pilot are very uncomfortable for me. I am 6'4". I think that the issue is that while the back cushioning is 20" wide, the metal frame of the seat back is only 13" wide. My back is 16" wide, so the metal frame jams into my back causing me pain. Possibly the narrow frame is due to the side airbags. At any rate, anyone have experience replacing these seats with aftermarkets that may be more comfortable? Any recommendations? I am in SE CT. Also, if the aftermarkets do not have side airbags, can I simply disconnect the existing seat at the connector, or will it affect the other airbags? Thanks in advance.